Resource Page
I will do my best to keep this page up-to-date with books, podcasts and other relevant media to spark your interest.
Sometimes I put the same resource in different categories.
Books
Aging
The Stonewall Generation: LGBTQ Elders on Sex, Activism and Aging by Jane Fleishman
Magnificent Sex: Lessons from Extraordinary Lovers by Peggy Kleinplatz
Naked at Our Age: Talking Out Loud about Senior Sex by Joan Price
Arousal
Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life by Emily Nagoski
Coping with Erectile Dysfunction: How to Regain Confidence and Enjoy Great Sex by Michael E. Metz and Barry W. McCarthy
Asexuality
The Invisible Orientation: An Introduction to Asexuality by Julie Sondra Decker
Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture by Sherronda Brown
Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society and the Meaning of Sex by Angela Chen
A Quick and Easy Guide to Asexuality by Molly Muldoon and Will Hernandez
Consensual Non-Monogamy
The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships and Other Freedoms in Sex and Love by Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Eaton
Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy by Jessica Fern
Polyamory: A Clinical Toolkit for Therapists (and their Clients) by Martha Kauppi
Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships by Tristan Taormino
Disability
Making Love Again: Hope for Couples Facing Loss of Sexual Intimacy by Keith and Virginia Laken
Man Cancer Sex by Anne Katz
Woman Cancer Sex by Anne Katz
Regain that Feeling: Secrets to Sexual Self-Discovery: People Living with Spinal Cord Injuries Share Profound Insights into Sex, Pleasure, Relationships, Orgasm and the Importance of Connectedness by Mitchell Tepper
The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability: For All of Us Who Live with Disabilities, Chronic Pain and Illness by Miriam Kaufman, Cory Silverberg and Fran Odette
Gender
Beyond the Gender Binary by Alok Vaid-Menon
Trans Bodies, Trans Selves: A Resource for and by Transgender Communities edited by Laura Erickson-Schroth
Trans Sex: Clinical Approaches to Trans Sexualities and Erotic Embodiments by Lucie Fielding
Gender Magic: Live Shamelessly, Reclaim Your Joy and Step into Your Most Authentic Self by Rae McDaniel
General Sex Therapy
So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex: Laying Bare and Learning to Repair our Love Lives by Ian Kerner
Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections by Emily Nagoski
How Sex Works: Why We Look, Smell, Taste, Feel and Act the Way We Do by Sharon Moalem
Sizzling Sex for Life: Everything You Need to Know to Maximize Erotic Pleasure at Any Age by Michael Castleman
Feel It All: A Therapist’s Guide to Reimagining Your Relationship with Sex by Casey Tanner
The Art of Receiving and Giving: The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin
Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence by Esther Perel
Guide to Getting It On by Paul Joannides
Infidelity
The New Monogamy: Redefining Your Relationship After Infidelity by Tammy Nelson
The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity by Esther Perel
Not "Just Friends": Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity by Shirley Glass
Kink
The Leather Couch: Clinical Practice with Kinky Clients by Stefani Goerlich
The Deep Psychology of BDSM and Kink: Jungian and Archetypal Perspectives on the Soul’s Transgressive Necessities by Douglas Thomas
Kink-Affirming Practice: Culturally Competent Therapy from the Leather Chair by Stefani Goerlich
Men’s Health
The Existential Importance of the Penis: A Guide to Understanding Male Sexuality by Daniel Watter
Testosterone: An Unauthorized Biography by Rebecca Jordan-Young and Katrina Karkazis
Contemporary Male Sexuality: Confronting Myths and Promoting Change by Emily and Barry McCarthy
Orgasm
Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters—And How to Get It by Laurie Mintz
Coping with Premature Ejaculation: How to Overcome PE, Please Your Partner and Have Great Sex by Barry W. McCarthy and Michael Metz
Learning to Orgasm in 4 Acts by Betty Dodson
She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman by Ian Kerner
Relationships
Desire: An Inclusive Guide to Navigating Libido Differences in Relationships by Lauren Fogel Mersy and Jennifer Vencill
Sex Talks: Five Conversations that Will Transform Your Love Life by Vanessa Marin
Getting the Sex You Want: Shed Your Inhibitions and Reach New Heights of Passion Together by Tammy Nelson
Sex Without Stress by Jessa Zimmerman
Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life by Justin Lehmiller
Your Blueprint for Pleasure: Discover the 5 Erotic Types to Awaken--and Fulfill--Your Desires by Jaiya
Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love by Sue Johnson
Love by Design: 6 Ingredients to Build a Lifetime of Love by Sara Nasserzadeh
Religion
Pure: Inside the Evangelical Movement that Shamed a Generation of Young Women and How I Broke Free by Linda Kay Klein
Sex Therapy with Religious Patients: Working with Jewish, Christian and Muslim Communities by Caleb Jacobson
The Great Sex Rescue: The Lies You've Been Taught and How to Recover What God Intended by Sheila Wray Gregoire
Unprotected Texts: The Bible's Surprising Contradictions About Sex and Desire by Jennifer Wright Knust
Women’s Health
The Vagina Bible: The Vulva and the Vagina—Separating the Myth from the Medicine by Jen Gunter
The Menopause Manifesto: Own Your Health with Facts and Feminism by Jen Gunter
Podcasts
AlloAndAce- explores dynamics in allosexual and asexual relationships
Better Sex
Come As You Are- sex and science
Our Better Half- sex and aging
Sexvangelicals- sexuality education for those recovering from HCRs
Sex with Dr. Jess
Sexology Podcast
The Trouble with Sex
TwoX Labs-explores intersectionality of mental health, sexuality and neurodiversity in AFABs
Where Should We Begin? Real therapy sessions focused on sex and relationships
Products
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Kindra vulvovaginal health and wellness
The Pelvic People Products to end painful sex. Use code STRETCHY for 15% off.
OMGYES education on female sexual pleasure
Sex Therapy Pro AI-driven solutions for sexual wellness
Soul Source Vaginal dilators
Trans Tool Shed Products and information